On January 19th, my Mom and I boarded a plane to Fort Lauderdale, Florida. On that day, there were SO many things that could have gone wrong…but didn’t. It was amazing how we all made every single flight – no delays. And Caren (who was flying standby) made it to Fort Lauderdale first – it was seriously amazing and a huge answer to prayer!  I got a text from her when she made her first flight (which looked impossibly overbooked): “I am on!!” I remember that surge of emotion (JOY) and thinking to myself, “this is it – we’re really doing this!!”  The day – seriously – couldn’t have been more perfect.

mom geo travel

Made it through security and relaxing before our first flight!  Like our coordinating outfits?! 😉

Doctor ordered mask (on the airplane and around large groups of people) and oxygen in flight. A beautiful sunset from the air as we neared our first stop: Minneapolis. (I couldn’t get that mask off fast enough – one way to get people to stay away – wear a mask!)

My two sisters were already there – waiting for us with the rental car – when our plane landed.  We left the airport at about midnight, ready to “embark” on a fun, tropical week, but little did my Mom know of the adventure that lay ahead.  From the time we left the airport to the time our heads hit the pillow that night at the hotel – each of us girls had accidentally let the words “cruise” or “ship” slip in front of our Mom.  This surprise was getting more and more difficult to keep secret!

holding hands

Our hotel room had one king bed and a pull-out sofa. We all climbed into the king bed to watch tv and chat before going to sleep. Well, my Mom woke up in the night and went to the pull-out bed, but us three girls slept this way til morning. =)

waking up

We woke up to the flash on Mom’s camera…well, and Caren yelling…haha!

Here’s the story:

On December 7, 2012, my Mom turned 60. My sisters and I knew for a long time that we wanted to do something extra fun and special.  We had lots of planning conference calls, emailing and texting in the months leading up to our big adventure.  One thing we knew for sure: we wanted the best part of the trip to be a surprise for our Mom.

On my Mom’s actual birthday, we planned a day of fun surprises/clues all leading up to her gift from us: a custom book FILLED with photos and memories from her friends and family.  On the last page of the book we included a poem:

Happy, Happy Birthday
60 years have flown by fast!
One more adventure to make
the celebration last,

The scavenger hunt
does not end here,
we have more planned
to start the new year.

Pack your bags
for unexpected fun,
we will laugh, play
and enjoy the sun!

January 19th
is the day we fly out,
we have everything ready,
even the route!

You are the best Mom,
you deserve all the credit.
You are deeply loved
please never forget it!

So for the six weeks between her birthday and our trip – she only knew that we were going to Florida.  We wouldn’t give her any more details.

It was so awesome waking up in Florida to a warm, sunny day!

Hotel in Fort Lauderdale

Hotel in Fort Lauderdale

We did some research the night before and found the highest rated diner in Fort Lauderdale.  We asked some locals and they said it was their favorite – and it was good.  We ordered waffles, an omelet and two orders of eggs Benedict and shared all of it (which is pretty much what we did at a lot of our upcoming meals, as well!).  They had a ton of baked goodies, so we loaded up on those, as well.  Then we were off to turn in our rental car and wait for the shuttle to the port.


Lester’s Diner – Fort Lauderdale, Florida – January 20, 2013


Lester’s Diner – Fort Lauderdale, Florida – January 20, 2013

At the car rental drop-off, there were shuttles to the port.  At this point, my Mom was very confused as to why we were dropping off the car and where we were going next.  We pretty much lied and said we had to turn in our rental car and then take a shuttle to our “resort.” Well, EVERYONE around us was waiting for a shuttle to the port to go on a cruise.  It seemed EVERYWHERE we went, people were talking about cruising.  We got asked several times if we were there to go on a cruise.  Finally, Mom had asked one too many questions and we decided (while still waiting for our shuttle to the port) that we had to tell her.  I dug out her passport – that I had smuggled from her files weeks before – and got my phone ready to record her reaction.  Caren handed Mom her passport and our Carnival luggage tags…


There is a video, but she swore in it and she won’t let me post it.  Lame. It is MY blog, after all. Oh wait…

We went on a 6 day cruise…to Key West, Grand Caymans, & Ocho Rios, Jamaica!

(and I did get her permission to post this)

I asked Mom months ago what her dream birthday would be and she said, “go on a cruise, just us four girls.”

Her dream came true. Stay Tuned!


One of our first views of the ship, Carnival Freedom!


{thanksgiving} day six: caren

“It’s a Bird, It’s a Plane, It’s Caren McShane!”  So proud of my sister Caren and her recent accomplishment: she was featured in a local publication: Montana Woman.  The article depicts her so well – as a professional, cake hobbyist, but most importantly; as a Mom.

Oh, did I mention it is Caren’s 34th birthday today?!  Happy Birthday, Caren!  Hope you have a great birthday and great year ahead.  Thankful you’re my sister.  Love you!

Summer 2011 {Auctions, Homesteads and Family Time}

It is difficult to even know where to start.  The past two months have been amazing.

On May 26th, Caren, kids and I road tripped over to our hometown of Williston, North Dakota.  A place that will always remain near and dear to my heart, regardless of its ever changing landscape and dynamic.  If you were not born/raised in Williston – it may difficult to understand – but just imagine the place you call home and why you love it.  For me it is so many things….the memories, the people, childhood, the good times, the tough times, the consistencies, the small town, the food (ha, I know!!), and the familiarities.  Most every street and building holds some type of memory and I love that feeling.  Even though in recent years, Williston has changed drastically most of the things I love about my hometown have remained.  There is always something going on and someone to visit with.  Someone is always having “a coke (which can mean any type of “pop” or soda)” or coffee and treat.

Therefore, “going home to Williston” is always something I look forward to.  It’s a very safe, secure, encouraging and loving place for me.  Most everyone has known my story since an early age and watched the journey – the “get” me.  This chaotic, confused, sarcastic, goofy ME.

Back to the story…..we road tripped to Williston and stayed at the Waitman’s.  Natalie and kids were to arrive the next day and my Dad’s family auction was the next day – on the 28th of May.  For me, it was a mini-family reunion with my Dad’s family.  I got to meet little cousins that I had never met before.  The auction itself was a very bizarre feeling.  I had always known it would happen, but it was very bizarre that most of my grandparents earthly possessions held no memories/meaning for most of us kids.  They were avid auction-goers – so most of their belongings were from auctions around the area and kept in their original form – boxes full of random “stuff” aka antiques.

The auction itself was a fun and new experience.  It was crazy (and disheartening) that most of the items went for far beyond their value.  Going into the auction – most of the family members didn’t have anything particular that they were looking to bid on, but as the auction started numbers were snagged and my sisters (and Dad and Kim) – as well as other cousins, aunts, uncles – ended up snagging a fairly large pile of loot.  Surprisingly, we even snagged a few pieces the held memories for us!  I grabbed my grandparents dishes that they used at the farm and bowls that I vividly remembering eating Cheerios out of!

During the auction, Natalie’s diaper bag/purse was stolen.  Gone.  There was a scurry of activity as word spread.  That bag held her life while she was on vacation with her kids in ND.  Without the contents she would be in a world of hurt for the rest of her trip.  Police were called, a report was filed, but then the bag mysteriously appeared.  Everything was in the bag except for Holton’s toy bag – full of 50+ cars from Cars the movie.  One disappointed and sad three year old little guy – why would someone do that?  The whole incident made no sense.  It was a very rough start to our family time in North Dakota.

The last few days of May we spent visiting friends, hanging out at the Waitman’s, and  visiting the farms….

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The next big event while we were all in North Dakota happened to be on June 2.  My 30th birhday….

To be continued.


25 things

I got this awesome email from my sister Natalie the other day….thought I’d share!  =)

1.  You try to say one funny thing a day!
2.  That you will send a picture if you have a cute outfit on.
3.  You always have cute hair.
4.  I can always talk to you.
5.  Your honesty
6.  Best AUnt Ever!!
7.  Best sister ever
8.  Thoughtfulness
9.  Packages (When I was in college in one of my classes some of the other girls would have to see all the goods you would send)
10.  Great advice
11.  Supportive
12.  Wonderful friend
13.  Apple supporter whole heartedly
14.  Staunch republican
15.  Passionate about President Bush
16.  Your love for God
17.  You’re a fighter
18.  Knitting
19.  Coffee lover
20.  Organized
21.  Excellent cook
22.  Doesn’t complain
23.  Always has Oreos
24.  Drives (fast drives when mad)
25.  Karaoke (need I say more)

Happy 28th Birthday, Natalie!


Today is a very special day. Wish I could be with you to party it up.

Happy Birthday, Natalie!

I hope Berk & Holt are ANGELS for you today!

So, thankful to have you as a sister.

On this day 28 years ago God made me a big sister.

Hope you have a fabulous day full of all your favorite things.

I LOVE you big time, Natalie! Happy Birthday!

To Natalie

Get a blog rolling already – then I can keep up with Holton stories/pics – even though we talk every day!

An ode to our past . . .
I’m glad those style days are looong gone – or are they?!  Nice hat.  Don’t you still wear that?!


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